I’ve spent a good chunk of my life wondering, “Why don’t they get me?”
And honestly? I’ve dished out the same energy. “What is their deal?”

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Turns out, this wasn't just about personality quirks or differing opinions—it was about spirit. Essence. The deep-down stuff that doesn’t change no matter how many self-help books you read or boundaries you set.

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At 28, newly sober and unsure what I was doing with my life, one harsh comment sent me spiraling. I feared the worst: maybe I really am a flake.

That’s when my mentor offered me a lifeline—and a whole new lens.
She introduced me to the concept of the Limbdweller. (There’s a full story behind that name, and it changed my life. You can read it [here].)

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That moment helped me realize: I wasn’t broken. I was just built for a different part of the tree.

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Still, that clarity didn’t always translate in the corporate world.
Over 35 years in Sales, Marketing, and Advertising, I often tucked away my most natural gifts just to belong. It worked—until it didn’t.

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After the pandemic and a breast cancer diagnosis, everything in me said: no more shrinking. No more shape-shifting. No more apologizing.

And so, I built something for all of us who’ve felt “too much,” “too sensitive,” “too out there,” or “not enough.”

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Because here’s the truth: there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just wired a certain way. And so are the people around you.

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The Limbdweller Program blends Positive Intelligence, coaching, and a playful (but powerful) shift in how we see ourselves and each other.

Whether you’re rooted, reaching, or somewhere in between—you belong on this tree.

Take the quiz. Discover your view. Let’s grow—differently.
xo,
Sandy

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